by Dee Osah

We’re excited to share that the second installment of the Teka Family Series, Teka Homecoming, is here.

This novel continues the Teka family journey through a story of return, reckoning, and love tested by history.

About the story:

He went to bury a ghost—and found the woman he could never forget…
But some ghosts refuse to stay buried, and some loves refuse to die.

When Bart Teka travels to Nigeria to meet his estranged father, he never expects to run into Geri Pena, the woman whose memory still haunts him. But now that he’s found her again, someone will do anything to make her disappear.

Geri is desperate to return to the U.S., but leaving Africa won’t be easy. When a threat on her life forces them to flee together, Bart risks everything to protect her, only to learn that crossing an ocean can’t keep the past from catching up.

As old wounds and buried secrets rise to the surface, Bart must face his tangled legacy of adoption, betrayal, and a love strong enough to face the pain he’s never spoken aloud.

But just as new hope blooms, the past returns, reminding them that true redemption always costs more than you’re willing to pay.
Can love survive when the past refuses to stay buried…

If you’ve been following the Teka family from the beginning, or if this is your first step into their world, we’re grateful to have you here.

Feel free to use this thread to:

• Share your excitement or thoughts before release

• Ask questions about the story or characters

• Post reactions once you start reading

Thank you for walking this journey with us. 🤍

We explore what it truly means when God says, “Be fruitful and multiply.” 

We unpack how:

• Fruitfulness must precede multiplication

• The fruit of the Spirit is what God is after (not platform, visibility, or output)

• God’s design is growth from within — not growth for show

This is our not-so-quiet challenge within the episode:

• Fruitfulness > visibility
• Depth before platform
• Become, before you go

💬 Let’s talk about it:

Here are some starter questions:

1. When have you felt pressure to multiply before you were ready?

2. Which “fruit of the Spirit” has been most costly (or most beautiful) for you to grow?

3. How do you personally define fruitfulness right now in your season of life? What does “fruitfulness” mean to you personally?

4. Which of the fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22–23) is hardest for you to grow right now? Why?

5. Have you ever mistaken visibility for fruitfulness? What helped you see the difference?

6. What would change if you measured growth by peace, joy, or love, not productivity?

7. What’s a time in your life when God asked you to “become” before He let you “go”?

👇🏽 Drop your reflections below, and feel free to ramble… if you want to. 🧺

Reading Daniel has been especially helpful in this season. Talk about a man who had to stay rooted on the unchanging One during how many kings, governments, culture. 

I hope this little snippet encourage and spur you on as you live as a Vessel for Him. And if you have any comments or insights, I welcome it as always. 

God bless you!

In a world that screams for attention, stillness is a whisper that only the heart can hear. It's a rare and precious commodity, one that's often overlooked in the chaos of modern life. Yet, it's in the stillness that we find the strength, peace, and power to navigate life's turbulent waters. This devotional journey invites you to step away from the noise and rediscover the sacred art of quieting your soul before God. Whether you're a busy parent, a driven professional, or simply someone seeking solace in the midst of life's storms, this journey is for you.

As we embark on this path together, let's fix our gaze on the One who speaks calm into the chaos: "Be still, and know that I am God" (Psalm 46:10). These words, penned by the psalmist, hold a profound truth that can transform our lives. Stillness isn't just a feeling; it's a choice. It's a decision to quiet the mind, calm the heart, and listen to the whispers of God. In the midst of turmoil, stillness is a declaration of trust. It's a statement that says, "I may not have control over my circumstances, but I have control over my heart. And in this stillness, I will seek God."

This devotional eBook is designed to guide you through 30 days of exploring the power of stillness. Each day will include a scripture, a reflection, and a prayer to help you deepen your understanding of God's presence in your life. As you journey through these pages, I encourage you to approach stillness with an open heart and mind. Don't worry if your mind wanders or if you find it challenging to quiet your thoughts. The goal isn't perfection; it's presence. It's about showing up before God, day after day, and allowing Him to speak into your life.

I've been contemplating on the topic of satisfaction and what that means as a follower of Jesus. It led to a short audio clip that I'd like to share. I hope the verses within my vocal musings bless you as they have blessed me. 

• Proverbs 30:8-9
• Matthew 6:11

Featuring Uncle Ebi & Auntie Mina — Married 43 Years

>> Watch Episode 4 to catch up <<

In this heartfelt episode, co-host Timi Komo Irby invites her parents, Uncle Ebi and Auntie Mina, to share wisdom from over four decades of marriage. The conversation centers on the concept of guard rails—the boundaries, habits, and intentional choices that protect a marriage over time.

They speak on the importance of:

• Building trust through open and honest communication

• Setting boundaries to protect the sanctity of your relationship

• Seeking support when needed—without inviting unnecessary voices

• Prioritizing quality time to stay connected

• Letting faith and community help carry the weight of hard seasons

Their story includes a long-distance engagement, lessons in communication, and the grace it takes to protect love through the years.

The episode ends with a prayer for couples in crisis, reminding us all that God remains the firm foundation.

💬 Let’s talk about it:

• What stood out to you most from their story and insight?

• How have you (or someone you know) practiced “guard rails” in marriage or dating?

• What did you think about the advice to keep marital issues private?

• How can the community support a couple without interfering?

• What does healthy boundary-setting look like for you?

• What’s one habit or principle you want to build into your current or future relationship?

👇🏽 Drop your thoughts below.

Let’s reflect on love, trust, and the boundaries that make it flourish. 🧡

>> Watch Episode 3 to catch up <<

In this special episode, host Timi Komo Irby sits down with guest authors Dee and Osah (the husband-and-wife duo behind Dee Osah) for a real and honest conversation about intimacy within Christian marriage.

Together, they explore the emotional and spiritual complexities of sexual relationships—especially after seasons of abstinence or purity culture pressures.

The conversation weaves through personal experiences, the importance of patience, the power of open dialogue, and the beautiful but sometimes challenging transition into a healthy, faith-centered view of intimacy.

They remind us that intimacy is not just physical—it’s layered with friendship, communication, patience, and prayer.

Inviting God into that journey isn't optional—it’s essential.

💬 Let’s talk about it:

• What part of the conversation resonated with you most?

• How has your understanding of intimacy been shaped by your upbringing or faith background?

• Why do you think patience and communication are so crucial when navigating intimacy in marriage?

• How does friendship impact emotional and physical intimacy between spouses?

• What does it mean to invite God into the journey of love and intimacy?

👇🏽 Share your reflections below.

This is a space for grace, honesty, and healing conversations.

>> Watch Episode 2 to catch up <<

In this episode, Timi Komo Irby and Auntie Mina go deeper into the role of faith in marriage.

Faith isn’t just a backdrop—it’s the compass, the anchor, the quiet guide through every high and low.

They explore how faith in God offers stability, clarity, and hope when life—and marriage—gets hard. They also challenge us to think bigger: what if our homes themselves became mission fields?

A place where hospitality, real conversations, and intentional community create space for spiritual growth, both inside and outside the marriage.

Through personal stories and encouragement, we are reminded: faith isn’t just a belief system. It’s a way of living, loving, and leading—starting right where we are.

💬 Let’s reflect:

• What does it mean for faith to be an active foundation in marriage?

• How has your personal faith (or lack of it) shaped your relationships?

• What did you think of the idea of turning your home into a mission field?

• How do you practice hospitality in a way that feels authentic and spiritually meaningful?

• What does "faith in action" look like to you—especially in marriage and community?

👇🏽 Drop your thoughts below—big, small, raw, or reflective.

Let’s talk about building homes and hearts anchored in something bigger than ourselves.

>> Watch Episode 1 to get started <<

In this first episode, Timi Komo Irby and Auntie Mina dive into what it really takes to build a lasting marriage. Not just love, but alignment in core values.

Focusing on Chapter One of the book Abiding Love, they explore the pillars every couple needs to stand strong together: faith, finances, family, and conflict resolution. Through honest conversation and personal stories, they highlight how differences in upbringing can shape communication styles—and why identifying shared values early on is essential.

This episode reminds us that love alone isn’t enough. Without agreement on the deeper things, even the best intentions can crumble.
Faith. Open communication. Supporting one another’s leadership. These are the building blocks.

💬 Let’s talk about it:

• What stood out to you most from this episode?

• How important do you think value alignment is in marriage or partnership?

• Have you seen examples (in your life or others’) where misaligned values caused struggles?

• What did you think about the idea that love alone isn’t enough?

• What role does faith play in establishing shared values?

• What’s one value you would personally put at the top of your list?

👇🏽 Drop your reflections below—big or small.

Let’s build a conversation rooted in honesty, wisdom, and grace.